Saturday, November 2, 2013

Let this diwali burn all your bad times and enter you in good times!!
Wishing u all a happy deepavali ;-)

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Wednesday, August 28, 2013

A heart touching story with moral n inspiration



Please take few seconds to Read this story.. It’s Worth..
A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
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“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”
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Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…
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“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”
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The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
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“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”
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The old man smiled and said…
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“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.”
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MORAL……….
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Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.


Always be helpful


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Always be helpful ~ What goes around comes around ~ Inspirational Story
One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was those chills which only fear can put in you. He said, “I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.”
Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.
As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn’t thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, “And think of me.”
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn’t erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan.
After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.
There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: “You don’t owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I’m helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.”
Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard….
She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, “Everything’s going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.”

There is an old saying “What goes around comes around.”

Monday, August 5, 2013

Stay motivated


Here are some tips to increase productivity in college.

Geeta Padmanabhan

 

Stay alert:Listen to music to improve your mood.Photo: V. Ganesan 
Stay alert:Listen to music to improve your mood.Photo: V. Ganesan


The student at Bangalore’s premier law college is polite, but frenetic. “I'm rushing off to the library. Can we talk while we walk?” she asks. Cannot blame her. Her essay on an obscure aspect of law is due tomorrow, she has a hostel party to attend this evening, and she needs to wash her hair. And all those missed calls... 

“Study? That takes a beating,” said Suhas, an engineering student. “I have to squeeze that in, between Facebook, Twitter, texting, biking, hanging out, video games, who has the time? Wish the day could be stretched to 48 hours.” 

You have to learn to cope with what initially appears to be strange timetables of operation, wrote Pranati, Humanities student at IIT-Madras. “I had to get accustomed to the practice of staying awake to ungodly hours with cups of Tifany's coffee.”

So your assignments are piling up alarmingly. You have arrears that never seem to go away. Studies feel like they are robbing you of life. You can't open your FB page without a pang of guilt. Assignment deadlines loom, but you want to stretch, drink water, yawn, and put it off a “little bit” - will start at 6, maybe an hour later? It'll take just a couple of hours, so after the match...

Don't panic. Here are tips to raise output, stay productive.
Write It Down: Once you know what to do, put it on paper and stick it on the wall. It’s a reminder – “get down to work and complete the tasks.” Too much? Break down tasks into “to-do” lists, paste them above the computer, or on the cellphone. Get an app that will remind you of must-do work. Cross out those you finish. Crossed-out lists are big morale boosters.
Schedule Facebook/Email time: The slide into time-wasting begins when you convince yourself, “I'll log on, check mail/wall for new stuff and get back in 2 minutes.” Aaah, “two minutes” goes in cosmic time, my friend. A major chunk of your assignment time is gone staring at the Facebook wall, the clock ticks away. So schedule your time on Facebook, twitter or email. Stick to the schedule. Time lost is lost!
Focus: Most people want total quiet for laboratory assignments. If you are the no-noise type, choose a quiet spot, be unavailable for a couple of hours. Make quiet-time allotment a habit to retain what you study. Also, studying in the same location (room, library, a secluded place in the campus, local bookstore) helps focus and retain information.
Say “No” To Distractions: Turn off your phone, TV, iPod, Video game. Focus on the academic work in hand, take hourly breaks to relax your brain and maintain level of productivity when you get back to work.
Set Goals : Be clear about what you want to accomplish in college. What you will do armed with degrees. Further studies? Another university? Go abroad? Take a gap year? Summer classes in between? Internship? Once you have a set goal, assignments and studies will look like necessary pin pricks.
Just-do-it!: The biggest secret to stay productive is to “do it”. Procrastination and productivity are rivals, you need to let go of one to get the other. Start work asap, instead of waiting for a “better time”.
Fill Your Room With Music: “Singing helps me to stay focused. When the bowler is running in to bowl, I start to sing but as soon as he gets to his delivery stride, I focus on the ball. Singing when the bowler is running in, empties my mind of unwanted thoughts,” said M.S. Dhoni. Set off your favourite CDs or grab your iPod. Psychology Today, in “Music and Productivity: 5 Ideas for Using Music to Boost Performance” says listening to music improves ability to complete repetitive tasks efficiently. Listening to music without words is sure to improve your mood. When mood improves, energy levels increase. Is slow, soft music your thing? Well, it's great for completing the toughest of assignments.
Reward Yourself: Psychologists recommend this as a foolproof system to increase productivity. Rejoice every time you reach an academic goal. Why do you think assignment papers are graded as A, A+? Go for a burger, movie, a gift to yourself, new sneakers, shades - make your choice. Reward-system is what you need when trying to motivate yourself to put in regular hours of work.
Get Enough Sleep: Research into sleep disorders and brain function clearly shows the importance of sleep in memory and consolidating information. Without sleep, the brain struggles to absorb and retain ideas. “There is a growing interest in the associations between adequate sleep and academic performance,” said Derk-Jan Dijk, Professor of Sleep and Physiology, Surrey Sleep Research Centre.

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దాన బ్రహ్మ

గాలీ నేలా నీరూ నిప్పూ ఆకాశాలమయమీ విశ్వం. ఇక్కడ ఈ భూతలాన అనంతకోటి ప్రాణుల్లోని మనిషొక అద్భుతమైతే, ఆ మనసు ఓ పరమాద్భుత సృష్టి. గరికపాటి కవికి కనిపించినట్టు'సృష్టి జడమ్ము, పూర్ణమగు చేతన నుండి సముద్భవించె, ఈ/ సృష్టి పునర్విలీనమగు చేతనలో, పరిణామశీలమై/ వ్యష్టిగ రూపుదాల్చునొక వైద్యుత పుంజము మేలుకొల్పెనీ సృష్టిని'. పర్యవసానంగానే మనిషీ మనసూ ఈ ప్రపంచమంతా. సమస్త సృష్టి పరిణామక్రమంలోనూ ఒక్క మానవప్రాణికి మాత్రమే అనుబంధాలు, అనుభూతులు, బలాలు, బలహీనతలు. 'నిన్న నిన్నే, నేడు నేడే, రేపు రేపే' అన్నట్టు సాగే గమనంలో ఎప్పటికప్పుడే ఎక్కడికక్కడే లెక్కలేనన్ని మార్పులు, చేర్పులు, కూర్పులు, నేర్పులు! మెలమెల్లని పిల్లగాలులే కాదు, ప్రళయ ఝంఝా ప్రభంజనాలూ వీస్తాయిక్కడ. నవ జీవనానంద మందిరాలకు పునాదులతో పాటు, నింగికీ నేలకూ మధ్య అడ్డుగోడలూ లేస్తాయిక్కడ. సెలయేటి గలగలలతో పాటే, మహోగ్ర రూపమెత్తి ఒక్కసారిగా ముంచెత్తే జలఘోషలూ ఇక్కడ వినిపిస్తాయి. కొండంత వెలుగునిచ్చే గోరంతదీపాలే కాక,దాశరథి భావనలా 'కొండలు కొండలే అడవికోనల భగ్గున మండిపోవ/గుండెలు గుండెలే అరుణగోళములై ప్రళయాగ్నిమాలలై పోవ' అగ్నిధారలు కూడా ఇక్కడే కనిపిస్తాయి. తళుకులూ మెరుపులే కాదు- ఎరుపులు, ఉరుములు సైతం దడదడలాడిస్తాయి ఆకాశాన్ని. అంతలా ఆశనిరాశలు, సుఖదుఃఖాలు వెంబడిస్తుంటే ఆధునిక కవిహృదయంలా 'జననం సుప్రభాతం, మరణం సాయం సంధ్యారాగం, ఆ రెండింటి నడుమ ఉన్నదే జీవితం' అని ప్రతి ఒక్కరికీ అనిపించక మానదు.




 

లోకంలో అన్నింటికంటే సముదాత్తం, ఉత్తమోత్తమం మానవ జీవితమే. దాన దయాగుణాల కారణంగానే దానికి సార్థకత, ధన్యత. 'ఫలములనిచ్చును వృక్షము/ సలిలములిచ్చును నదులును చక్కగ నెపుడున్/ ఫలితము కోరక జనులకు/ కలకాలము మేలొనర్తురు గద సాధుజనుల్' అన్న సంప్రదాయ కవి మనోగతమూ అదే. తోటివారికి సూర్యచంద్రుల్లా కళాకాంతీ ప్రసాదించే మనిషే మనిషని రుగ్వేదమంటే, దానమే సకల గుణసంపన్నమన్నాయి ఉపనిషత్తులు. అభయదానం ఆదర్శప్రాయమని భగవద్గీత బోధిస్తే, దానం చేయాలన్న సద్బుద్ధే అన్నివిధాలా వృద్ధిదాయకమంది మహాభారతం. తాళ్లపాక తిమ్మక్క చెప్పినట్టు 'ధర్మమేదియు ప్రాణదానముతోను తులతూగదు'. కవి తిమ్మయ చాటినట్టు 'ప్రాణదానము సేయ బహు పుణ్యమిచ్చు'. మహా ఫలప్రదానంగా తిక్కన, సర్వ ప్రీతికరంగా నన్నయ ప్రస్తుతించిన దానశక్తికి ప్రతీకలుగా ఎందరు లేరు? అన్న, ధన, విద్య, వస్త్ర, భూదానాదులు అనేకమున్నా- పరహితమే పరమార్థ సాధనకు పునాది అని భావించి చేసే అవయవ దానాలే అమృత గుళికలు. ప్రతి మనిషీ తన కోసమేకాక ఇతరుల మేలు కోసమూ తపిస్తే, తానున్నా లేకున్నా తన పేరు మిగలాలన్న ఆర్తికి క్రియారూపమిస్తే, సినారె అన్నట్టు- 'అవధి లేని అనుభూతి' అది. కళ్లు, గుండె భాగాలు, మూత్రపిండాలు, వూపిరితిత్తులు, కాలేయం... శరీరంలోని ఏ భాగాన్నయినా తన మరణానంతరం ఇతర అవసరార్థులకు ఇవ్వాలన్న సంకల్పమే మనిషి జన్మకు అమరత్వ సిద్ధినిస్తుంది. మృతశరీర అవయవాల మార్పిడి అంటే మరొకరికి ప్రాణంపోయడం. మనిషే అద్భుత సృష్టి అనుకుంటే, ప్రతిసృష్టికీ ఆ వ్యక్తే మూలం కావడం ఎంత ఘనాఘనం! లయానంతరం ఆ ప్రాణి మరో ప్రాణికి ప్రాణమివ్వడం ఎంతెంత పరమాద్భుత దానం! శిబి, బలి, దధీచి, కర్ణుడు, రంతిదేవుడు వంటి ధర్మనిరతులు, దానశీలురు, యశోధనులు పుట్టిన భరతసీమ మనది. సాటిలేని ఆ సత్యసంధత తరతరాలకీ చెదరనిది, దీటురాని ఆ భారతీయత సకల మానవాళికీ పరంపరానుగత వరసిద్ధి. కవి స్వరం పలికినట్టు 'నిరంతర సౌరభాలొలికే గులాబీపువ్వు' దాత జీవనం. 'రమణీయ ఫాలసీమ భాసిల్లే లేతనవ్వు' ఆ భావనం.

ఎంత నిండుగా పారే ఏరైనా, తన నీటిని తానే తాగదు.ముందు వెనకా చుట్టుపక్కలా ఉన్న అన్నింటినీ చూసే కన్ను, తన ఉనికిని తాను చూడదు.ఆ తీరులోనే, ఇతరులు హాయిగా బతకాలన్న ఆర్ద్రత కలిగిన మనిషి 'నేనూ- నాదీ' అన్న స్వార్థధోరణితో ముడుచుకుపోయి బతకలేడు. లోకానఎవరికైనా జననం, మరణం, గమనం, గమ్యం ఒకటే. ఆకులు రాలిన చోట కొత్తచిగురును కోరే మది మాత్రమే నరసింహకవివాక్కులా 'ఉన్న వనరులన్ని ఉపయోగముననున్న/ చిత్తశుద్ధి పనులు చేయుచున్న/వెనుకనున్న ఘనత కునుకు తీయకయున్న/ ప్రగతి కురియు హర్షవర్షమట్లు'స్థితిని సొంతం చేసుకుంటుంది. ఆపద్బంధువులా ఆదుకునేందుకు ముందుకొచ్చిన మంచి మనసును చూసి చెమ్మగిల్లని కళ్లుంటాయా? ప్రార్థించే పెదవులకన్నా సేవచేసే చేతులు ఎంత మిన్నో గ్రహించిన ఆ కృతజ్ఞతకు నోట మాటలంటూ వస్తాయా? 

అవయవాల దానం మరికొన్ని జీవితాల్ని వెలుగులమయం చేసిన సందర్భాలకు ఈమధ్య భాగ్యనగరమే వేదికగా భాసించింది. వైద్యశాలలో మృత్యుముఖాన ఉన్న ఒక వ్యక్తినుంచి అవయవాల్ని జీవనదానమిచ్చేందుకు ముందుకొచ్చారా కుటుంబీకులు. ఫలితంగా అతడి మరణం తదుపరి, ఏడుగురికి ప్రాణప్రదానం సంభవమైంది. మరో వ్యక్తీ అదే స్థితిలో మరణించి, తన అనంతరం ఐదుగురికి జీవితాన్ని పంచారు.అదంతా 'స్వస్థ సమాజ' సాధన దిశగా మానవత సగర్వంగా ఎగరేసిన నవ పతాక. మానవుల పరిపూర్ణ వికాసానికి కీలకం ఆరోగ్యమంది చరక సంహిత. అన్ని సంపదలకీ తలమానికం ఆరోగ్యభాగ్యమేనని చాటిచెప్పింది బుద్ధచరిత. ఆ వైభవమంతటినీలేనివారికి పంచిపెట్టే 'దానబ్రహ్మ' మనిషే కావడం అనంత మాననీయం, అత్యంత మహనీయం.

Friday, July 19, 2013

DO WE PERFORM OUR DUTY TO OUR PARENT?

The parents nowadays are quite worried about the behavioral changes in their children due to several socio-economical reasons. The gap between parents and the younger generations, is increasing day by day due to which the family bonding is getting weaker and weaker. They have forgotten the countless efforts and sacrifices made by their parents throughout their lives.

                                        DO WE PERFORM OUR DUTY TO OUR PARENT?

Since  birth we ate the  food provided by them -  many lakhs of times!!! Our  household expenses,  maintenance, educational needs,  daily coaching etc., was attended by them free of cost.  All our requirements  under the sky, from childhood till we started earning our own income, was provided by them at their cost, despite their financial conditions and ability,  until we became  independent  to enjoy and survive in this world. The services of our parents cannot be listed as it will run to volumes.  All that we can do in return is  our moral and spiritual responsibility to take care of them now when they are helpless

  1. Give them enough money understanding their requirements without their indicating  same.
  2. Share time with them to laugh and smile.
  3. Be polite and don't try to control their actions, but politely give your views slowly and softly.
  4. While walking keep pace with them as due to age, they may be slow and  stay behind them. Give them respect.
  5. Look after  their needs,  just  asking   “shall I bring water, some biscuits, a fruit  etc.,? Should i bring tea for you? Are you hungry, baba” etc
  6. Observe their health condition closely and take  them for periodical check ups. Sensitive parents will not ask you to do this and that.
  7. Check whether they take their medicines timely and remind, don't talk about the cost of the medicine and value!!
  8. Take them out where they would like to go, and organize it to their satisfaction.
  9. Go from time to time to public places, parks, restaurants of their choice etc.,
  10. Respect their preferences and  likes. Dont force your views and preferences.]
  11. They don't demand respect, they deserve it
  12. When  elders arrive or depart, open the door with respect.
  13. Go shopping and watch they select and don't comment on their choices.. Your choices certainly will differ with theirs and you cannot thrust it on theirs.
  14. celebrate their birthdays and wedding days with some surprise gifts observing their needs and preferences.
  15. Daily wish them before you go out and return home visiting them in their rooms.
  16. Explain your children the importance of the grand parents and cultivate the habit so that you will be respected when they become grown up!!!
  17. When you come back to home, visit them first in their room.
  18. Dont criticise their friends and their manners, dresses etc., and talk ill of them.  They have not come to see you,or care for your views,  which please remember. 
  19. In any matter of discussions where the views of yours and the parents  differ try to follow their views as much as possible finding a compromising solution without hurting  feelings. Remember their sacrifices and time,  and you owe them immeasurably which they never asked for. Going their way with your supporting ideas would be ideal patiently and politely.
  20. Disposal of old parents to old age homes, and separate care homes is a crime unpardonable.   Remember their hardship and difficulties in bringing you up and putting up with your tantrums and obstinacy  mindfully. Dont be ignorant..
  21. At the dinner table, first serve food to them and then to others


A word to parents also  –  Please for heaven’s sake don't mention how much troubles and sufferings you had in bringing up your children in front of them or talk about the money you spent on their studies and maintenance etc.  This is not settlement of account matter.  Love begets love which please  remember and don't degrade yourself. You should not demand respect but command it.

FORGIVENESS

Forgiveness is the highest spiritual practice.
It begins when you recall those
who hurt you and

Feel the power to wish them well.
A story from Zen Buddhism

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Wonderful story….must read !!!

A woman baked chapatti (roti) for members of her family and an extra one for a hungry passerby. She kept the extra chapatti on the window sill, for whosoever would take it away. Every day, a hunchback came and took away the chapatti. Instead of expressing gratitude, he muttered the following words as he went his way: “The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” This went on, day after day. Every day, the hunchback came, picked up the chapatti and uttered the words: “The evil you do, remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” The woman felt irritated. “Not a word of gratitude,” she said to herself…
“Everyday this hunchback utters this jingle! What does he mean?” One day, exasperated, she decided to do away with him. “I shall get rid of this hunchback,” she said. And what did she do? She added poison to the chapatti she prepared for him! As she was about to keep it on the window sill, her hands trembled. “What is this I am doing?” she said. Immediately, she threw the chapatti into the fire, prepared another one and kept it on the window sill. As usual, the hunchback came, picked up the chapatti and muttered the words: “The evil you do, remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!” The hunchback proceeded on his way, blissfully unaware of the war raging in the mind of the woman.
Every day, as the woman placed the chapatti on the window sill, she offered a prayer for her son who had gone to a distant place to seek his fortune. For many months, she had no news of him.. She prayed for his safe return. That evening, there was a knock on the door. As she opened it, she was surprised to find her son standing in the doorway. He had grown thin and lean. His garments were tattered and torn. He was hungry, starved and weak. As he saw his mother, he said, “Mom, it’s a miracle I’m here. While I was but a mile away, I was so famished that I collapsed. I would have died, but just then an old hunchback passed by. I begged of him for a morsel of food, and he was kind enough to give me a whole chapatti. As he gave it to me, he said, “This is what I eat everyday: today, I shall give it to you, for your need is greater than mine!” ” As the mother heard those words, her face turned pale.
She leaned against the door for support. She remembered the poisoned chapatti that she had made that morning. Had she not burnt it in the fire, it would have been eaten by her own son, and he would have lost his life! It was then that she realized the significance of the words:
“The evil you do remains with you: The good you do, comes back to you!”
Do good and Don’t ever stop doing good, even if it is not appreciated at that time

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Worth reading A Simple Upedesh..!

A Simple Upedesh..!
A Young Man Called Rama Swami Died An Untimely Death.
His Parents, Wife And Nine Year Old Son Were Crying Bitterly Sitting Next To His Dead Body.
They All Happened To Be Disciples Of A Holy Man Whom They Called ‘Maharaj Ji’. When Maharaj Ji Learnt That Rama Swami Had Died, He Came To Visit The Family.
He Entered The House And Found The Family Wailing Inconsolably.
Seeing Maharaj Ji, The Wife Started Crying Even Louder. She Sobbed Saying, “Maharaj Ji, He Has Died Too Early, He Was So Young…
Oh! I Would Do Anything To Make Him Alive Again. What Will Happen To Our Son? I’m so Helpless and Miserable.”
Maharaj Ji Tried To Pacify The Crying Lady And The Old Parents,
But The Loss Was Too Much For Them To Come To Terms With So Easily.
Eventually, Maharaj Ji Said, “Alright, Get Me A Glass Of Water.”
Maharaj Ji Sat Near The Dead Body And Put The Glass Next To It.
He Said, “Now, Who Ever Wants That Rama Swami Should Become Alive Again May Drink This Water.
Rama Swami Shall Come Back To Life, But The Person Who Drinks The Water Shall Die Instead!”
Silence..!
Come, Did You Not Say That Rama Swami Was The Sole Bread Winner Of The Family? Who Would die Instead Of Him?
It Is A Case Of Fair Exchange, Isn’t It?”
The Wife Looked At The Old Mother And The Old Mother Looked At The Wife. The Old Father Looked At Rama Swami’s Son.
But No One Came Forward…
Then Maharaj Ji Said To The Old Father, “Babuji, Wouldn’t You Give Your Life For Your Son?”
The Old Man Said, “Well, I Have My Responsibility Towards My Wife. If I Die Who Will Look After Her? I Cannot Offer My Life To You.”
Maharaj Ji Looked Questioningly At The Old Woman And Said, “Amma?”
Amma Said, “My Daughter Is Due To Deliver Her First Baby. She Will Be Coming To Stay For A Month. If I Die Who Will Look After Her And The Newborn. Why Don’t You Ask Rama Swami’s Wife?
Maharaj Ji Smiled And Looked At The Young Widow.
She Widened Her Tear Filled Eyes And Said, “Maharaj Ji, I Need To Live For My Son…If I Die, Who Will Look After Him? He Needs Me.
Please Don’t Ask Me To Do This Sacrifice.
Maharaj Ji Asked The son, “Well Little Boy, Would You Like To Give Your Life For Your Father?”
Before The Boy Could Say Anything, His Mother Pulled Him To Her Breast And Said,..Maharaj Ji, Are You insane?..
My Son Is Only Nine. He Has Not Yet Lived His Life. How Could You Even Think Or Suggest Such A Thing?”
Maharaj Ji Said, “Well It Seems, That All Of You Are Very Much Needed For The Things You Need To Do In This World… It Seems Rama Swami Was The Only One That Could Be Spared…
That Is Why God Chose To Take Him Away.
So Shall We Now Proceed With His Last Rites? It’s Getting Late. Having Said That, Maharaj Ji Got Up And Left.
God’s Plan Is Impeccable.
Sometimes Man Is Unable To Understand God’s Design.
The Time Of Entry And Exit For Each One Of Us, Is In God’s Hands.
It Is His Prerogative Alone To Pluck The Flower He Wishes To.
It Is Nobody’s Prerogative To Question His Will.
In The Words Of Dada, “We Tend A Plant Only When The leaves Are Green; When They Become Dry And The Plant Becomes A Life-Less Stick, We Stop Loving It.
Love Lasts As Long As Life Exists The Rest Is Only Memories Of Happy Times..!

THE SMART GAME OF LIFE..!


 
There Once Lived A Great Mathematician In A Village Outside Ujjain .
He Was Often Called By The Local King To Advice On Matters Related To
The Economy.
His Reputation Had Spread As Far As Taxila In The North And Kanchi In
The South.
So It Hurt Him When The Village Headman Told Him, “You May Be A Great Mathematician Who Advises The King On Economic Matters But Your Son Does Not Know The Value Of Gold Or Silver.” 
The Mathematician Called His Son And Asked, “What Is More Valuable -
Gold Or silver?”
“Gold,” Said The Son. “
That Is Correct.
Why Is It Then That The Village Headman Makes Fun Of You, Claims You
Do Not Know The Value Of Gold Or Silver?
 
He Teases Me Every Day. He Mocks Me Before Other Village Elders.
As A Father This Hurts Me. I Feel Everyone In The Village Is Laughing Behind My Back Because You Do Not Know What Is More Valuable, Gold Or Silver.
Explain This To Me, Son.” 
So The Son Of The Mathematician Told His Father The Reason Why The Village Headman Carried This Impression.
“Every Day On My Way To School, The Village Headman Calls Me.
There, In Front Of All Village Elders, He Holds Out A Silver Coin In One
Hand And A Gold Coin In Other.
He Asks Me To Pick Up The More Valuable Coin.
I Pick The Silver Coin.
He Laughs, The Elders Jeer, Everyone Makes Fun Of Me.
This Happens Every Day On My Way To School.
That Is Why They Tell You I Do Not Know The Value Of Gold Or Silver.” 
The Father Was Confused.
His Son Knew The Value Of Gold And Silver, And Yet When Asked To
Choose Between A Gold Coin And Silver Coin, He Always Picked The Silver Coin.
“Why Don’t You Pick Up The Gold Coin?” He Asked.
 
In Response, The Son Took The Father To His Room And Showed Him A Box. In The Box Were At Least A Hundred Silver Coins.
 
Turning To His Father, The Mathematician’ s Son Said, “The Day I Pick Up The Gold Coin The Game Will Stop.
They Will Stop Having Fun And I Will Stop Making Money.” 
The Bottom Line Is…
Sometimes In Life, We Have To Play The Fool Because Our Seniors And Our Peers, And Sometimes Even Our Juniors Like It.
That Does Not Mean We Lose In The Game Of Life.
It Just Means Allowing Others To Win In One Arena Of The Game,
While We Win In The Other Arena Of The Game.
We Have To Choose Which Arena Matters To Us And Which Arenas Do Not.