Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Simple Solutions to Complex Problems

http://datastore.rediff.com/h5000-w5000/thumb/6067235A695D5A67646A616760/0d4ifclfnflbf0kz.D.0.2000247024240854743_rs.jpgMany years ago in a small Indian village,

A farmer had the misfortune
Of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender. The
Moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer’s beautiful
Daughter. So he proposed a bargain.

He said he would forgo the farmer’s debt if he could marry his
Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the
Proposal.

So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let
Providence decide the matter. He told them that he would put a black
Pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would
Have to pick one pebble from the bag.

1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her
father’s debt would be forgiven.

2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her
father’s debt would still be forgiven.

3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into
Jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer’s field. As
They talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he
Picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two
Black pebbles and put them into the bag.

He then asked the girl to pick
A pebble from the bag.

Now, imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have
Done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you
Have told her?

Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag
And expose the money-lender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order
To save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with
The hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral
And logical thinking.

The girl’s dilemma cannot be solved with
Traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses
The above logical answers.

What would you recommend to the Girl to do?

Well, here is what she did ….


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The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without
Looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path
Where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

“Oh, how clumsy of me,” she said. “But never mind, if you look into the
Bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I
Picked.”

Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had
Picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not admit his
Dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into
An extremely advantageous one.
MORAL OF THE STORY: 
Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don’t Attempt to think. 
 

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

PEARLS OF WISDOM





A mirror is only as good as the reflection in it.

An appreciative heart attracts more of what it appreciates.

The smallest deed done is greater than the best of intentions.

Adversity does not build character, it reveals it.

Worry just enough to anticipate trouble but not so much as to bring it about.

Melt the icy fingers of fear with the sunshine of hope.

When you feel dog tired at night, it may be because you’ve growled all day long.

A good way to forget your troubles is to help others out of theirs.

The sweetest grapes are picked from the vineyard of friendship.

Being in a good frame of mind helps keep one in the picture of health.

People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.

Don’t be so busy adding up your troubles that you forget to count your blessings.

We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails.

The impossible can always be broken down into possibilities..

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, today is a gift! 
That’s why it’s called the present! 




~Authors Unknown
Have a wonderful day…..Enjoy the present

MAKE A DIFFERENCE




Your time is never wasted when you’re

truly making a difference.
Every productive effort adds value to your world.
Don’t worry about what’s in it for you.If you’re making a difference,
if you’re making a positive contribution to life,
there’s always something in it for you.

Though there may not seem to be any direct
or immediate rewards,your efforts willmost certainly be rewarded.

The longer you’re willing to wait for
those rewards, the bigger they will be.

Many times your efforts will pay off in ways

you could not have foreseen.

Keep being creative, keep being productive,
Keep being effective, and keep being your best.

It may sometimes seem that no one

appreciates the work you’re doing.

When you feel that way, then raise your efforts
to an even higher level, for at some point
someone will definitely take notice.

Be sincere in your efforts and in your desire
 to
make a valuable, meaningful positive difference.
And know that the rewards will always come.

POWERFUL OR DESPERATE




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Powerful or Desperate?

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You can either be desperate or you can be powerful.
How would You prefer to be? 

You can ignore your responsibilities and continue to let
Yourself fall more and more behind, until you have no choice
But to desperately take action. Or, you can push yourself a
Little bit more each day, grabbing every opportunity to make
Progress, and put yourself firmly in control of your ownCircumstances.

Use time as it comes, to be productive and creative and
Effective. The more wisely you use your time, the moreControl you’ll have over all the aspects of your life.

Get in the habit of doing what is best instead of merely
What is easiest. In fact, seek out the difficult challenges
And deal with them on your own terms rather than waiting
Until they find you. 

If you wish, you can come up with plenty of excuses for not
Taking action. But those excuses will add nothing of value
To your life. 

Instead, go ahead and do what must be done, then take the
Initiative and do even more. Live life on the highest level
By working your way upward each chance you get.
Have a wonderful day. God bless you.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Reflection……..

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If you think you are beaten, you are…
If you think you dare not, you don’t…
If you like to win, but you think you can’t,
It’s almost a cinch you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’ve lost.
For out in the world we find;
Success begins with a fellow’s will…
It’s all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are…
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before;
You can ever win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go;
To the stronger or faster man,
But sooner or later the man who wins;
Is the one who thinks he can.

[ Author: Walter D. Wintle ]